Showing posts with label Richard Bode. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Richard Bode. Show all posts

Monday, December 3, 2012

Learning to Adjust Your Sails


Learning to Adjust Your Sails
Book title: First You Have to Row a Little Boat: Reflections on Life & Living
Author: Richard Bode
Length: 182 pages
Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
Price: $14.99 USD

By Maggie Bowker

Learning to Adjust Your Sails


“To tack a boat, to sail a zigzag course, is not to deny our destination or our destiny…it’s to recognize the obstacles that stand between ourselves and where we want to go, and then maneuver with patience and fortitude, making the most of each leg of our journey, until we reach our landfall” (Bode, 42).

In his national bestselling book, First You Have to Row a Little Boat:Reflections on Life & Living, Richard Bode writes about his personal obstacles and how he overcame them by “learning to row a little boat.” In his memoir, Bode talks about the life-changing events he experienced such as losing his parents at a young age and making the decision to quit a successful job in the PR field to pursue his lifelong dream of becoming a freelance writer.

Bode grew up on LongIsland's Great South Bay, where he was raised by his aunt and uncle. Growing up on the water, Bode had an insatiable desire to learn to sail. At the age of 12, he did just that, he learned to sail—but not before learning to “row a little boat” first.



Photo Credit: http://www.actuallywecreate.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/smoothsailor1.jpg

Bode’s memoir is one that uses metaphoric language to express the  way he learned about life’s ever-changing ways—through sailing. He relates the obstacles he faced in sailing to the obstacles in his life and how he overcame them. At first, the sailing terms were hard for me to comprehend, but they really made the true story feel more genuine.

 I really enjoyed reading this book because it is inspirational and provides a new outlook on embracing change, finding yourself and becoming the person you want to be.



Although everything may not always go the way you plan in life, by learning to adjust your sails you will fare just fine as Richard Bode has proven.



Friday, November 30, 2012

Sailing through the sea of life..



Sailing through the sea of life..

By: Aracely Baeza


Richard Bode seems to me to be somewhat of a pessimist when it comes to writing analogies and metaphors about his life, in his very popular book First You Have to Row a Little Boat:Reflections on Life & Living, which turned into a bestseller in 1995, has also gone through several hardcover printings and not to mention has been published in twelve foreign-language editions.

 Bode talks about how he was very unhappy in his public relations career and compares his life to sailing through the open ocean, and defines the wind as the controlling or guiding force to his life.

"When I was writing Little Boat, I walked on the beach every single day, so I could puzzle out what I was trying to say," says Bode according to Union College Magazine 

                                                                     (Photo credit to: baptist.org)

Bode's marriage fell apart when his children were grown, he decided to move and leave his successful career and live on his own in a cottage on a beach in California. 

He was finally able to do what he had always wanted and write. 

Although, he eventually began to do what he had always wanted to do, the tone in this book about life as mentioned before is not very exciting.
He talks about how he wishes very much that he would have taught his children the right ways to live but at the same time says it as though they should learn all on their own. 


 There are a few "deep" thoughts in the book however like when he says;

“For the truth is that I already know as much about my fate as I need to know. The day will come when I will die. So the only matter of consequence before me is what I will do with my allotted time. I can remain on shore, paralyzed with fear, or I can raise my sails and dip and soar in the breeze.” 

                                                   (Photo credits to: David Sanger Photography)

I can hear the frustration he has with life, he isn't very satisfied but will live with what he has.  

The refrences to sailing in this context may be very appealing to those whom enjoy the open waters and everything that comes with sailing. Personally, I love the ocean and the enormous peace I receive from it, however the way it is portrayed in this book isn't very peaceful. 
It is a good in the sense that it makes you think about life, but sort of makes me question my career choice.

All in all, this book is one of those you must read to get a feel of it for yourself. Being a bestseller though, may show you it might really be worth it!

You Must Row A Little Boat Before Steering A Ship


You Must Row A Little Boat Before Steering A Ship

By: Diana Scharffenberger

Reflecting back on his life lived on the open water; Richard Bode shares his lesson-packed story full of youthful adventures in his book First You Have To Row A Little Boat. Bode is constantly struggling to find the meaning of life and using sailing to tell his tale.

Bode uses several metaphors to help readers relate to his story. Sailing represents life’s journey, wind represents unexpected troubles that are thrown our way and Bode represents us.

Photo Credit:
http://hypervision2.blogspot.com/2011/02/sailing-progress.html

Although I enjoyed how Bode related life through metaphors and the sea, his book came off slightly negative and discouraging.


He talks about how he was taught to sail as a child and how he carried those lessons throughout his entire life. They showed him that life doesn’t always go as planned and doesn’t always go the way you want it to.  These vital lessons were thought provoking and deep. Unfortunately, Bode later reveals that he fails to teach his kids how to sail. He fails to share what was so impacting and life changing to him, with his kids. This, to me, was disappointing.

There are unexpected and unwanted encounters you must face. You must endure the choppy water before you can reach smooth sailing. You must row a little boat before you can steer a ship.


Photo Credit: http://oldbookends.blogspot.com/2011/11/first-you-have-to-row-little-boat.html